RPL at Home (March 2024)

Welcome to the March 2024 edition of RPL at Home, where I share what I’m up to when I’m not in the kitchen or in front of the camera. 

Each month, I’m sharing snippets of what I’m working on, habits I’m cultivating, things bringing me joy, books/TV shows/podcasts I’m enjoying, and more. Think of it as stream-of-consciousness blabbering meets a semi-curated list of recommendations meets life update. 

📖 My new cookbook is *finally* ready!

I am so dang excited to announce that my second cookbook, Big Vegan Flavor, is finally available for preorder!!! 

After 3+ years of hard work over two thousand recipe tests, this baby is ready for the world. I have never worked so hard or so passionately on a single project in my life, and I could not be more proud. 

And I would be so honored and overjoyed if you preordered a copy! Your support means so much to me and is the reason I get to do the work I do. 

☀️🚶🏽‍♀️What I’m working on in life 

If you’ve been reading along for awhile, you know that I love walking. During the summer months, Max and I were pretty religious about going on a 45 minute walk every morning, shortly after waking up. 

It was a great way to start the day with light exercise, as well as a nice opportunity for us to chat about both big and small issues in the business, in life, and in the world. And lots of research has shown that viewing sunlight early in the morning has lots of powerful benefits: it improves our energy and mood throughout the day and primes us for better sleep at night. 

However, once winter arrived, our dedication to the morning walk waned. I’d be awake for an hour before the sun rose, which was enough time for me to ensconce myself at my desk and lose myself in work. And I know many of you live in actually cold climates, but winter mornings in San Diego can be chilly for someone with my constitution (it gets into the 40s!), so a long walk became less appealing. 

During the last few months, we’ve still gone on morning walks…but only a few times a week and usually for 20 minutes instead of 45 minutes. 

So now that warmer and brighter days are ahead of us, I’ve re-committed myself to the morning sunlight walk. To hold ourselves accountable, Max and I have decided to stick to the same morning schedule. 

I am an extreme morning person, while Max is a moderate morning person. For the first time ever in our 14-year relationship, he has finally agreed to wake up early with me: 5:30 am to be precise. I am over the moon. 

It’s only been a week and a half, but here’s where we’ve landed:

After our basic hygiene stuff, we have the opportunity to do our own thing until 7 am. I’ve very recently started meditating for 10 minutes (as has Max), and then I then brew a cup of my Indian-spiced tea, followed by settling into my desk to plan out my day. I’d like to meditate for longer, but for now, I’m taking baby steps since it’s been several years since I regularly meditated.

Then we have a hard stop at 7:00 a.m. We unload the dishwasher (it’s always full in my house) and do a brief tidy up. Then, we must put on our sneakers and go for a walk.  

We’re still taking 20ish minute walks instead of 45 minutes, but we’ve built in time for another 20 minute walk in the afternoon (and we always take a 20-minute walk after dinner). 

So far, we’ve stuck to the schedule! The morning walk is energizing even if it’s not as long as it used to be, and our afternoon walk is a great way to break up the day and ward off afternoon slumps. 

The only downside is that I live in constant fear of the day when Max decides he’s no longer a 5:30 am person. 

What I’m watching, listening to, and reading

📺 Watching

Currently, we’re watching the new series Shōgun, a historical drama miniseries that takes place during the Sengoku period in Japan in 1600 (it’s based on the 1975 novel Shōgun by James Clavell). 

The visual effects are mesmerizing, situating you in Japan in the early 17th century (or the closest you’ll ever come to it). The characters are layered and interesting. There’s mystery, intrigue, and tension. 

It’s been compared a lot to Game of Thrones, and I agree to a certain extent. The visual production is stunning and the central plot revolves around taking, shifting, and holding power, but unlike Game of Thrones, there is less glorified violence and lawless brutality (a plus in my book). 

So if you liked Game of Thrones (but thought it was maybe too much in some ways), I think you’ll love Shōgun. 

📚 Reading

Over 10 years ago, I read the debut memoir from writer Jesmyn Ward, The Men We Reaped. I instantly fell in love with her writing, so when I spotted a weathered copy of her third novel—Sing, Unburied, Sing—in one of the lovely free libraries in my neighborhood, I knew it would be the next book I’d read. 

The novel tells the intimate, often heartbreaking story of a family in Mississippi whose lives are interconnected by the cruel history of the Parchman Prison. 

After reading just the first chapter, it became clear to me why this book won the National Book Award, and why I think Ward is one of the most talented writers and storytellers of our time. 

It was so good that I immediately went to my local bookstore and bought a copy of her new book, Let Us Descend (not finished with that one yet). If you’re interested in Ward’s work, I really enjoyed her interview in The Guardian. 

On my recent trip to Australia (more on that below!), I read Master Slave Husband Wife by Ilyon Woo, which tells the remarkably true story of a couple’s daring escape from slavery in Georgia in the late 1840s and their journey to freedom. 

The woman, Ellen, used an elaborate costume to disguise herself as a wealthy white man seeking medical care in the north, while her husband, William, pretended to be her enslaved property. 

Every chapter is engrossing and keeps you at the edge of your seat. It reads like fiction but is an exhaustively researched and true story that—until Woo’s book—was barely known. 

🎧 Listening

For the last 9 years, I have listened to almost exclusively “serious” or serious-ish podcasts. Podcasts on history, racism and homophobia and sexism, the news and politics, life in prison, threats to democracy, war, climate change, and other big questions about humanity. 

I have learned so much from these podcasts, and I’m so grateful for this free education. 

But after 9 years, I finally felt like I needed something a bit lighter. So, back in January, I granted myself a temporary break from serious podcasts. 

And what have I been listening to for the last 2 months? The most ridiculous and hilarious podcast that, given its wild success, I can’t believe I had never heard of until 2 months ago: My Dad Wrote a P*rno. 

Here’s the description from their site. 

Imagine if your dad wrote a dirty book. Most people would try to ignore it – but not Jamie Morton. Instead, he decided to read it to the world in this groundbreaking comedy podcast. With the help of his best mates, James Cooper and Alice Levine, Jamie reads a chapter a week and discovers more about his father than he ever bargained for.

Warning: While this podcast is not sexy in any way, it is dangerous to listen to while operating a car or motorized equipment. 

While listening to this podcast, all of the above has happened: I missed my exit on the freeway, I was stared at with sheer terror by children crossing the street (I was cackling hysterically while waiting for a red light), I laughed so hard I started crying. 

So, yeah, if you need a funny and light podcast in your life, I cannot recommend this one enough (of course, don’t listen with your kids in tow!). 

New Recipes and Posts

🧳✈️🏝️ Fun Things

In February, we traveled to Australia for 12 days! Max’s grandparents (originally from England) moved to Australia 20+ years ago, and this was my third time visiting. 

They are the *sweetest* people I know, and I feel so grateful for the time we get to spend with them. At 91 and 88, they’re still deeply in love, hold hands, and look after one another.   

When I ask Max’s grandfather what their secret is, his response is always “I always agree with my wife.” (Max, are you reading this?). 

We also got to spend time with Max’s cousin and her husband, who are expecting their first child very soon, as well as Max’s dad and brother who came along for the visit. So it was a lovely family trip that both of us really enjoyed. 

We then headed to Melbourne for 5 days. I had heard that Melbourne was vegan-friendly, but I was not prepared for what a vegan paradise it was! 

We truly had some of the best vegan food we’ve ever eaten and were shocked by how many “regular” restaurants and even bars served vegan options that were actually interesting and delicious. 

I’ve always enjoyed the food in Australia and found it to be vegan-friendly, but Melbourne was on another level. If you love to travel to foodie destinations, Melbourne is a must! Check out this video for some of my favorite dishes from the trip!

Okay, that’s it for this month! Drop me a line below and let me know what you’d like to see in the next edition :)